Marysville mom amazed she, kids survived wreck

MARYSVILLE — As the red car barreled toward her, Cathy Apgar closed her eyes and aimed her Nissan Leaf for the ditch on her right.

“I’m sure I heard crunching, and I felt a poof on my face,” she said. “Then I yelled, ‘Help! Help!’ and, ‘Call 911, call 911!’”

When she opened her eyes, the front right corner of her car was smashed in around her. Strangers were asking if she and her children were OK.

Cathy Apgar, 40, of Marysville, and three of her five kids were southbound on Highway 9 after a trip to Stanwood for school supplies when they were hit head-on by a suspected drunken driver.

All four had to be hospitalized. The other driver died in the Aug. 30 crash.

Apgar suffered broken bones in her neck and cuts from the smashed glass.

“It’s just amazing to think about,” she said. “We know that we’re here as a miracle. It was totally God.”

Her 2-year-old foster son was the least injured, with friction burns from his seat belt.

Her 7-year-old foster son suffered multiple broken bones. And her 15-year-old daughter was covered in bruises, had a bloody nose and needed staples for a head injury. Both are back in school.

The cause of the crash remains under investigation by Arlington police. Laboratory test results will take weeks.

The family is praying for the other driver, Jesus Isidoro-Sandoval, 26, of Arlington. And they keep thinking about all the little things that added up in their favor that day.

Apgar’s daughter had been reading with her feet up. When she felt the car veer, she put her legs down, likely saving herself from more severe injuries.

The boys were in their car seats. Their aunt is a car-seat safety specialist and trained the family on how best to install child seats.

The kids’ restraints were perfect, according to Arlington emergency crews who rushed them to the hospital.

“Absolutely, those car seats were installed to the T,” city spokeswoman Kristin Banfield said. “They really helped those kids from having any further injuries.”

In addition, husband Kevin Apgar was supposed to take their year-old car to work that day, but the Leaf is electric, and he forgot to plug it in. Instead, they switched vehicles for the day, since the Leaf wasn’t charged that morning.

Police told the family that the newer, safer car likely helped protect them.

The family is thankful for all the help they’ve received since the crash from friends, family and their church, Smokey Point Community Church. People brought food and helped with the kids.

“The amazing thing is my family is taking care of me,” Apgar said. “Everyone around here, including family and friends, are momming a mom.”

She also is deeply grateful to the passersby who came to their aid at the scene. She doesn’t know their names. They called her husband for her. They told her that if she and her kids could talk, they probably were alright.

“There are so many people who helped out who didn’t have to,” she said. “We feel just incredibly blessed, by not only being here, but also seeing people and God in action, loving people that they don’t even know.”

Rikki King: 425-339-3449; rking@heraldnet.com.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Local News

Alan Edward Dean, convicted of the 1993 murder of Melissa Lee, professes his innocence in the courtroom during his sentencing Wednesday, April 24, 2024, at Snohomish County Superior Court in Everett, Washington. (Ryan Berry / The Herald)
Bothell man gets 26 years in cold case murder of Melissa Lee, 15

“I’m innocent, not guilty. … They planted that DNA. I’ve been framed,” said Alan Edward Dean, as he was sentenced for the 1993 murder.

Bothell
Man gets 75 years for terrorizing exes in Bothell, Mukilteo

In 2021, Joseph Sims broke into his ex-girlfriend’s home in Bothell and assaulted her. He went on a crime spree from there.

A Tesla electric vehicle is seen at a Tesla electric vehicle charging station at Willow Festival shopping plaza parking lot in Northbrook, Ill., Saturday, Dec. 3, 2022. A Tesla driver who had set his car on Autopilot was “distracted” by his phone before reportedly hitting and killing a motorcyclist Friday on Highway 522, according to a new police report. (AP Photo/Nam Y. Huh)
Tesla driver on Autopilot caused fatal Highway 522 crash, police say

The driver was reportedly on his phone with his Tesla on Autopilot on Friday when he crashed into Jeffrey Nissen, killing him.

The Seattle courthouse of the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals. (Zachariah Bryan / The Herald) 20190204
Mukilteo bookkeeper sentenced to federal prison for fraud scheme

Jodi Hamrick helped carry out a scheme to steal funds from her employer to pay for vacations, Nordstrom bills and more.

A passenger pays their fare before getting in line for the ferry on Thursday, Sept. 28, 2023 in Mukilteo, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
$55? That’s what a couple will pay on the Edmonds-Kingston ferry

The peak surcharge rates start May 1. Wait times also increase as the busy summer travel season kicks into gear.

In this Jan. 4, 2019 photo, workers and other officials gather outside the Sky Valley Education Center school in Monroe, Wash., before going inside to collect samples for testing. The samples were tested for PCBs, or polychlorinated biphenyls, as well as dioxins and furans. A lawsuit filed on behalf of several families and teachers claims that officials failed to adequately respond to PCBs, or polychlorinated biphenyls, in the school. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
Judge halves $784M for women exposed to Monsanto chemicals at Monroe school

Monsanto lawyers argued “arbitrary and excessive” damages in the Sky Valley Education Center case “cannot withstand constitutional scrutiny.”

Mukilteo Police Chief Andy Illyn and the graphic he created. He is currently attending the 10-week FBI National Academy in Quantico, Virginia. (Photo provided by Andy Illyn)
Help wanted: Unicorns for ‘pure magic’ career with Mukilteo police

“There’s a whole population who would be amazing police officers” but never considered it, the police chief said.

President of Pilchuck Audubon Brian Zinke, left, Interim Executive Director of Audubon Washington Dr.Trina Bayard,  center, and Rep. Rick Larsen look up at a bird while walking in the Narcbeck Wetland Sanctuary on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Larsen’s new migratory birds law means $6.5M per year in avian aid

North American birds have declined by the billions. This week, local birders saw new funding as a “a turning point for birds.”

FILE - In this May 26, 2020, file photo, a grizzly bear roams an exhibit at the Woodland Park Zoo, closed for nearly three months because of the coronavirus outbreak in Seattle. Grizzly bears once roamed the rugged landscape of the North Cascades in Washington state but few have been sighted in recent decades. The federal government is scrapping plans to reintroduce grizzly bears to the North Cascades ecosystem. (AP Photo/Elaine Thompson, File)
Grizzlies to return to North Cascades, feds confirm in controversial plan

Under a final plan announced Thursday, officials will release three to seven bears per year. They anticipate 200 in a century.s

Everett
Police: 1 injured in south Everett shooting

Police responded to reports of shots fired in the 9800 block of 18th Avenue W. It was unclear if officers booked a suspect into custody.

Patrick Lester Clay (Photo provided by the Department of Corrections)
Police searching for Monroe prison escapee

Officials suspect Patrick Lester Clay, 59, broke into an employee’s office, stole their car keys and drove off.

People hang up hearts with messages about saving the Clark Park gazebo during a “heart bomb” event hosted by Historic Everett on Saturday, Feb. 17, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Clark Park gazebo removal complicated by Everett historical group

Over a City Hall push, the city’s historical commission wants to find ways to keep the gazebo in place, alongside a proposed dog park.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.