To Providence, a hearty thank you for love and care

This past year I’ve had several encounters with Providence Regional Medical Center in Everett. I’ve seen multiple wings, different care units and been present for difficult conversations. “Do you have a DNR? If you are dying, do you want chest compressions or a ventilator to save you?”

For a while there, before I had ever set foot in Providence, I felt oversaturated by their advertising campaign. I must have heard about Dr. Gina Cadena-Forney’s pregnancy a million times. I’m sorry that Dr. Tom Smith had prostate cancer, but I was tired of hearing about it. It seemed like every time I turned on Hulu or looked at a bus I saw their faces.

Now I’ve been to Providence enough times that my annoyance seems silly. The truth is there could never be enough words for me to convey how grateful I am to the people of Providence Everett.

It’s not just the doctors and nurses who have earned my admiration. It’s also the cafeteria servers, the men and women who clean the bathrooms and all of the other unnamed persons who keep the place humming.

I’m entirely ignorant of the medical profession. I don’t even know the title of the people who wheel your family member away for chest X-rays or MRIs. But I do know that the workers at Providence will treat my loved ones with respect.

Not having a medical background, it’s easy for me to feel overwhelmed in a clinical setting. I’ve been at other hospitals where I have felt — not exactly treated poorly, but patronized or managed. I’ve never felt this way at Providence.

I am also deeply impressed by the architects and interior decorators. I’ve arrived at Providence scared, trying to be strong for my loved ones, and been calmed by the buildings themselves. The architecture imposes peace upon visitors, from the moment they enter. You get the feeling of calm, like you’re in a place where people mean business and they’re really going to help.

Windows are everywhere and that makes a big difference. Even on the rainiest, grayest and most worrisome day, there is still light at that hospital. When you are accompanying a family member during a difficult situation and you get 10 minutes to stretch your legs, it really helps to be flooded by daylight and look upon a pretty view. A simple trip to the restroom can be restorative to your mental health.

The food is not bad either. I’ve eaten every gluten-free option the cafeteria has to offer and felt well-nourished. I have left loved ones in the evening comforted by the knowledge that they would be fed a very good breakfast.

So on behalf of the children, grandchildren and friends who have walked through your doors, thank you, Providence Everett. You are very much appreciated.

Jennifer Bardsley is an Edmonds mom of two and blogs at teachingmybabytoread.com.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Life

"Unsellable Houses" hosts Lyndsay Lamb (far right) and Leslie Davis (second from right) show homes in Snohomish County to Randy and Gina (at left) on an episode of "House Hunters: All Stars" that airs Thursday. (Photo provided by HGTV photo)
Snohomish twin stars of HGTV’s ‘Unsellable Houses’ are on ‘House Hunters’

Lyndsay Lamb and Leslie Davis show homes in Mountlake Terrace, Everett and Lynnwood in Thursday’s episode.

Gus Mansour works through timing with Jeff Olson and Steven Preszler, far right, during a rehearsal for the upcoming annual Elvis Challenge Wednesday afternoon in Everett, Washington on April 13, 2022. (Kevin Clark / The Herald)
Hunka hunka: Elvis Challenge returns to Historic Everett Theatre May 4

The “King of Rock and Roll” died in 1977, but his music and sideburns live on with Elvis tribute artists.

2024 Lexus GX 550 (Photo provided by Lexus)
2024 Lexus GX 550 review

The 2024 Lexus GX 550 has been redesigned from the ground up,… Continue reading

(Photo provided by Lexus)
2024 Lexus TX brings three-row seating back to the SUV lineup

The new luxury SUV is available in three versions, including two with hybrid powertrains.

Music, theater and more: What’s happening in Snohomish County

Jazz vocalist Greta Matassa comes to Snohomish while “Death by Design” ends its run at the Phoenix Theatre in Edmonds.

Mukilteo Police Chief Andy Illyn and the graphic he created. He is currently attending the 10-week FBI National Academy in Quantico, Virginia. (Photo provided by Andy Illyn)
Help wanted: Unicorns for ‘pure magic’ career with Mukilteo police

“There’s a whole population who would be amazing police officers” but never considered it, the police chief said.

To most, tiles are utilitarian. To some, they’re a sought-after art form.

Collectors particularly prize tiles made by early 20th century art potteries. This Wheatley piece sold for $216 at auction.

Spring plant sales in Snohomish County

Find perennials, vegetable starts, shrubs and more at these sales, which raise money for horticulture scholarships.

beautiful colors of rhododendron flowers
With its big, bright blooms, Washington’s state flower is wowing once again

Whether dwarf or absolutely ginormous, rhodies put on a grand show each spring. Plus, they love the Pacific Northwest.

I accidentally paid twice for my hotel. Can I get a refund?

Why did Valeska Wehr pay twice for her stay at a Marriott property in Boston? And why won’t Booking.com help her?

How do you want your kids to remember you when they grow up?

Childhood flies by, especially for parents. So how should we approach this limited time while our kids are still kids?

Whidbey duo uses fencing to teach self-discipline, sportsmanship to youth

Bob Tearse and Joseph Kleinman are sharing their sword-fighting expertise with young people on south Whidbey Island.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.