Hard days count the most in the long run

I had a very disrupted night last night and all I wanted to do this morning was curl up inside a warm cinnamon roll and eat my way out. Fortunately, I didn’t have any pastries within reach. Instead I hugged my cup of coffee and let the music on the radio get my head in a better place.

On days like this I try to think about making my future self proud. I know that the tough days are the ones that count the most in the long run. It is important to acknowledge when you feel bad. I have found it extremely helpful to verbalize my frustration — often standing in front of an open snack cabinet.

Saying the words, “I’m not hungry, I’m tired and frustrated,” can be enough to draw me out of my head and help me walk out of the kitchen.

This time of year can be especially difficult. The dreary weather sucks me into feelings of lethargy and I frequently get the blues. Knowing these feelings are coming helps. I can strategize ways to deal with the sluggish days.

On days when even the simplest tasks take all your energy, do your best to bear in mind, these feelings are temporary — “this too shall pass.”

To get yourself out of a funky head space, go outside and walk around the block, listen to some uplifting music, and have a chat with a friend. You may not snap right back to normal but a little distraction from your yucky day will help it pass with a bit more ease.

As for comfort eating, my suggestion is a big bowl of apple wedges, sprinkled with cinnamon and a pinch of nutmeg. Pair your snack with a cup of strong spicy tea, and, if the need to nibble keeps nagging, make yourself a big bowl of air popped popcorn. Eating when you feel down is not bad unless you use it as an excuse to make poor choices.

Do you get more cravings when you are tired? How do you help yourself make choices you will be proud of when you are feeling better?

P.S. If you Google “cinnamon roll bed,” there are no pictures of a cinnamon roll made into a bed or a person sleeping in a cinnamon roll. I was super disappointed. There is a need to be filled here, if you are so inclined.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Life

"Unsellable Houses" hosts Lyndsay Lamb (far right) and Leslie Davis (second from right) show homes in Snohomish County to Randy and Gina (at left) on an episode of "House Hunters: All Stars" that airs Thursday. (Photo provided by HGTV photo)
Snohomish twin stars of HGTV’s ‘Unsellable Houses’ are on ‘House Hunters’

Lyndsay Lamb and Leslie Davis show homes in Mountlake Terrace, Everett and Lynnwood in Thursday’s episode.

Gus Mansour works through timing with Jeff Olson and Steven Preszler, far right, during a rehearsal for the upcoming annual Elvis Challenge Wednesday afternoon in Everett, Washington on April 13, 2022. (Kevin Clark / The Herald)
Hunka hunka: Elvis Challenge returns to Historic Everett Theatre May 4

The “King of Rock and Roll” died in 1977, but his music and sideburns live on with Elvis tribute artists.

2024 Lexus GX 550 (Photo provided by Lexus)
2024 Lexus GX 550 review

The 2024 Lexus GX 550 has been redesigned from the ground up,… Continue reading

(Photo provided by Lexus)
2024 Lexus TX brings three-row seating back to the SUV lineup

The new luxury SUV is available in three versions, including two with hybrid powertrains.

Music, theater and more: What’s happening in Snohomish County

Jazz vocalist Greta Matassa comes to Snohomish while “Death by Design” ends its run at the Phoenix Theatre in Edmonds.

Mukilteo Police Chief Andy Illyn and the graphic he created. He is currently attending the 10-week FBI National Academy in Quantico, Virginia. (Photo provided by Andy Illyn)
Help wanted: Unicorns for ‘pure magic’ career with Mukilteo police

“There’s a whole population who would be amazing police officers” but never considered it, the police chief said.

To most, tiles are utilitarian. To some, they’re a sought-after art form.

Collectors particularly prize tiles made by early 20th century art potteries. This Wheatley piece sold for $216 at auction.

Spring plant sales in Snohomish County

Find perennials, vegetable starts, shrubs and more at these sales, which raise money for horticulture scholarships.

beautiful colors of rhododendron flowers
With its big, bright blooms, Washington’s state flower is wowing once again

Whether dwarf or absolutely ginormous, rhodies put on a grand show each spring. Plus, they love the Pacific Northwest.

I accidentally paid twice for my hotel. Can I get a refund?

Why did Valeska Wehr pay twice for her stay at a Marriott property in Boston? And why won’t Booking.com help her?

How do you want your kids to remember you when they grow up?

Childhood flies by, especially for parents. So how should we approach this limited time while our kids are still kids?

Whidbey duo uses fencing to teach self-discipline, sportsmanship to youth

Bob Tearse and Joseph Kleinman are sharing their sword-fighting expertise with young people on south Whidbey Island.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.